What is Alanon?
Alanon is a 12-step based program dedicated to helping
families and loved ones of alcoholics. Alanon was initially
created as a complimentary program to AA and helped
to change attitudes and behaviors of those closest to
active alcoholics. Alanon focuses on the belief that
alcoholism is a family disease and that by participating
in recovery the whole family can be healed. Alanon groups
follow the steps, traditions and concepts, just like
other 12-step groups and to be a member Alanon only
requires having a person with an alcohol problem in
your life. Alanon shares common experiences, feelings
and thoughts related to individual ties to alcoholism.
Many people find comfort and support among fellow Alanon
members because they have gone through similar traumas
or situations.
Why do I need Alanon?
While many people do not need Alanon or any type of
support group in order to "make it" through
the recovery process of another person, programs such
as Alanon do provide a sense of belonging, support and
understanding that may not be found elsewhere. Many
family members and friends of alcoholics can relate
to experiences in which they have enabled, aided or
tried to hinder the behaviors of an alcoholic. Although
this seems like the normal dynamic within an alcoholic
family, trying to fix or control an alcoholic is an
impossible task. Alanon teaches an alcoholic's loved
ones a new way of life, free from the bondage of the
alcoholic. Alanon can help family members and loved
ones separate themselves from the disease of alcoholism
but continue to provide loving kindness and support
for the sufferer.
Will Alanon keep an alcoholic sober?
No, Alanon will not keep an alcoholic sober. Alanon
is a program intended to help those who experience the
destructive and damaging patterns of alcoholics in their
lives. Alanon helps to curb family members' expectations
of the alcoholic and learn how to be happy even when
the alcoholic is still drinking. Although relapse is
not a requirement for recovery, many alcoholics do have
struggles trying to stay sober and Alanon groups can
provide support for loved ones through these hard times.
Through attending Alanon meetings, working with other
Alanon members and engaging in fellowship and Alanon
related activities, loved ones and family members of
alcoholics can find a new way of life and escape from
the vicious cycle of alcoholism. |
